When faced with some serious situations, that pull on your mental space, clarity, and emotions; appropriate words may not always be the easiest thing to come up with. It is in these times that I find being quiet is probably the wisest and safest course of action. Let's just be clear---there is sooo much I want to say, to give life to issues that need to be surfaced, and to right wrongs that may never again be addressed. However, the truth of the matter is "Rome wasn't built in a day" and sometimes I believe although you may have the mind to address a thing, God is waiting to see exactly what you will do and how you will do it. You might feel like you need to be the one to do it, but what if he's already strategically place other people without that person's path to confirm the issues that your interactions have already surface. Don't get in your own way, let God show you how much he has your back. I'm waiting patiently for the same. When he does it, it's better than any "I told you so" or "that's what I was trying to tell you". As the scripture says, " his ways are not are ways, and his thoughts are not our thoughts". Trust and believe that he can work it out, way better than you can.